The Complete Guide to Buying Sex Toy Accessories (2026)

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Top pick Vac U Lock Handle — turns any compatible dildo into a proper handled tool. The accessory that changes everything.

Best for beginners Boss Dildo Handle — a solid quick-fit grip that makes any compatible dildo easier to drive. Simple, sturdy, done.

Best value Adjustfit Inserts X3 — three OxBalls silicone inserts that fine-tune the fit of your gear for $22. Sorted.

What Are Sex Toy Accessories?

Sex toy accessories are the supporting cast: mounts, handles, refills and inserts that extend, upgrade or maintain the toys you already own. They don’t replace your main gear — they make it more useful and longer-lived.

The category splits into four camps: suction cups & mounts for hands-free play, handles & grips for control, refills & renewal supplies for kits and systems, and fit inserts that dial in how your gear sits. Most of the serious pieces run on the Vac-U-Lock system — a shared plug-and-socket standard that lets one dildo swap between handles, cups and machines. Have a browse through the full sex toy accessories range to see all four camps in one place.

Are Sex Toy Accessories Right for You?

If you own more than one toy, almost certainly — accessories turn a drawer of individual toys into a kit that works together, multiplying gear you’ve already paid for.

They earn their keep three ways. Hands-free play: a suction cup or swivel mount does in one purchase what no amount of improvising manages. Partner play: a handle turns a dildo into a precision instrument, easier on the wrists and better on the aim. And if you own a moulding kit or a Vac-U-Lock collection, refills and powder are simply part of ownership.

Straight talk on the trade-offs: accessories are system-specific — a Vac-U-Lock handle only drives Vac-U-Lock toys. Check compatibility before you buy, not after. That’s the one rule that matters in this category.

Types of Sex Toy Accessories: Which One Suits You?

There are four main types — suction cups & mounts, handles & grips, refills & renewal, and fit inserts — and the right one comes down to the job you want done. Match the system first, then the session.

Suction cups & mounts

The hands-free department. A suction cup locks your dildo to any smooth surface — shower tile, glass, a hard chair — so the toy stays put while you move. The Large Vac U Lock Suction Cup is the workhorse, and the Deluxe 360 Swivel Suction Plug adds a rotating joint so you can change angle mid-session without breaking the seal.

Handles & grips

The control department. A handle clips onto the base of a compatible dildo and gives the driver real leverage — kinder on wrists, better on precision. The Vac U Lock Handle is the classic; Fleshlight’s Boss Dildo Handle and the budget Power Up Dildo Handle do the same job for their quick-fit family.

Refills, powder & renewal

The maintenance department. Moulding kits like Clone A Willy run on consumables — the Silicone Refill lets you re-cast without buying the whole kit again — and Vac U Lock Powder keeps attachments sliding on and off their plugs smoothly instead of grinding.

Fit & comfort inserts

The tailoring department. Silicone inserts like the OxBalls Adjustfit Inserts X3 pad out gear that runs a touch roomy, so cages and rings sit snug instead of shifting around. Small money, big difference.

How to Choose the Right Sex Toy Accessory

Choose on four points: system, job, surface and budget. Get the system right and the rest is easy; get it wrong and you own a well-made paperweight.

Match the system first — non-negotiable

Every accessory belongs to a family. Vac-U-Lock pieces fit Vac-U-Lock dildos, Fleshlight’s handles fit their quick-fit bases, Clone A Willy refills fit Clone A Willy kits. Check what your toy’s base uses first — thirty seconds of checking saves a return.

Pick the job

Hands-free wants a suction cup or mount. Control wants a handle. Kit ownership wants refills and powder on the shelf before you need them. Gear that doesn’t quite fit wants inserts. One accessory, one job.

Check your surfaces

Suction cups grip smooth, non-porous surfaces: glass, glazed tile, polished stone, acrylic. Painted plasterboard, grouty tile and timber won’t hold a seal. If your bathroom is all texture, aim the cup at the one smooth panel.

Budget

The category is friendly: handles start at $13, inserts at $22, and the premium swivel mounts top out around $57. Start with the one accessory that unlocks the session you actually want, then build the kit from there — the accessories range isn’t going anywhere.

Materials & Body-Safety

Good accessories use the same body-safe materials as good toys: platinum-cure silicone for refills and inserts, firm ABS and reinforced plastics for handles and cups. If a piece touches skin, hold it to the same standard as the toy it serves.

Buying rules: silicone refills should be clearly labelled body-safe, suction cups should flex without creasing, and locking plugs should seat with a positive click. Wash anything skin-contact before first use, and pair silicone with water-based lube — the safe universal choice. That’s the whole checklist.

How to Use Sex Toy Accessories

Seat the attachment fully, test the hold before you trust it, and add water-based lube where skin meets toy. That’s most of the technique.

For suction cups: clean the surface, press the cup flat from the centre out, and give it a firm tug before the session starts — a cup that holds a hard pull will hold the real thing. For handles: lock the dildo on until it clicks, then let leverage do the work instead of wrist effort.

For moulding kits, read the timing instructions twice and lay everything out before you mix — moulding powder waits for nobody. A dusting of Vac U Lock Powder keeps plug swaps smooth for years, and a good water-based lube makes every part of the session better.

Care, Cleaning & Storage

Wash skin-contact pieces with toy cleaner or warm soapy water, dry fully, store dust-free — that’s the entire routine.

• Dry suction cups completely before storing; a damp cup stored flat can deform and lose its seal.
• Keep moulding powder and refills sealed and dry — humidity is the enemy of a clean cast.
• Store powdered Vac-U-Lock plugs in a pouch so the powder stays on the plug, not the drawer.

Our Top 7 Sex Toy Accessories for 2026

The seven accessories we rate most highly this year — ranked, in stock, priced in Australian dollars.

1

Vac U Lock Handle

SKU NBA-1090-16-BX

$64

The flagship. The original handle locks onto any Vac-U-Lock dildo and turns it into a proper handled tool — real leverage, real aim, wrists that last the session.

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2

Deluxe 360 Swivel Suction Plug

SKU NBA-1010-18-BX

$57

The upgrade pick. A suction mount with a rotating joint — change angle mid-session without breaking the seal. Adjustability the plain cups can’t match.

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3

Large Vac U Lock Suction Cup

SKU NBA-1010-10-BX

$48

The workhorse. A wide-base cup that grips tile and glass hard and holds your dildo exactly where you left it. Every system owner ends up buying one.

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4

Clone A Willy Kit Silicone Refill

SKU NBA-CAWSRLT

$56

The kit-owner’s essential. Body-safe silicone that lets you re-cast your Clone A Willy mould any time — second attempts, new colours, or a spare.

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5

Boss Dildo Handle

SKU NBA-FL-810476013875

$33

The beginner’s grip. Fleshlight’s sturdiest quick-fit handle gives any compatible dildo a solid, comfortable hold at half the premium price. Done right.

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6

Vac U Lock Powder

SKU NBA-1020-02-BX

$27

The maintenance hero. A dusting on the plug keeps every Vac-U-Lock attachment sliding smoothly for years. Boring, cheap, and the difference between a system and a struggle.

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7

Adjustfit Inserts X3

SKU NBA-OX-3052-CLR

$22

Best value in the category. Three OxBalls silicone inserts that pad out roomy gear so cages and rings sit snug. Twenty-two dollars to make everything fit better.

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