What Is a Couples Toy?

Couples toys are the sub-categories of the store made for partnered play: couples vibrators worn or held during sex, strap-on solutions for him and for her, massage candles and aromas, mood and body products, couples kits, double dildos, and sex furniture that changes the angle of everything. Some are toys in the usual sense; some are the setting.

The thread is that they are used together. Our couples range runs across a dozen sub-categories and several hundred products, from a $28 candle set to furniture that arrives on a pallet.

Are Couples Toys Right for You?

If you want more from sex with your partner and neither of you has a clear idea what, a couples toy is the right first purchase: it is shared by design, it does not single anyone out, and the good ones become part of the routine. If you already own solo toys, this is the category that brings them into the bedroom together.

It suits couples buying a first toy together, long-term partners who want to shake up a routine, blokes planning an occasion, and anyone who has noticed that the room matters as much as the toy. The couples vibrator guide and the sex furniture guide go deeper on the two biggest sub-categories.

The honest trade-off is that a couples toy needs both of you on board, and a surprise that misses the mark is worse than no toy at all. Furniture is expensive and needs space; strap-ons need a conversation first; candles and kits are the low-risk way in.

Types of Couples Toys: Which One Suits You?

Couples toys come in four broad types, and what you both want decides the pick: toys used during sex, mood and massage, kits and projects, and furniture.

Toys used during sex

Wearable and hand-held vibrators that stimulate both of you, and strap-ons that change who does what. The Cocktail Couples Vibrator is the couples vibrator that sells best; the 4.5" Beginner Strap On For Him is a beginner strap-on for him, hollow and sized for a first time.

Mood and massage

Candles that melt into massage oil, edible dusts and drip candles for the bedside. The Sandalwood Massage Candle is the sandalwood massage candle everyone re-orders; the Vanilla Honey Dust Creme is Kama Sutra's vanilla honey dust, on promotion; the Lacire Drip Pillar Candles Drip Candles Set Of 3 is a three-pack of low-temperature drip candles.

Kits and projects

A box with a night in it. The Clone A Pussy Sleeve Kit is the Clone-A-Pussy sleeve kit, a cast of her that becomes a stroker for him, and the most-ordered couples kit in the store.

Furniture

Chairs, chaises and wedges that hold positions neither of you could hold alone. The Adjustable Bouncing Sex Chair is a bouncing sex chair that does the work for you; the Kinky Couch Sex Chaise Lounge is the Kinky Couch chaise, the statement piece of the whole category.

How to Choose Your First Couples Toy

Choose in this order: what you both want, then the level of commitment, then budget, then the specific product. Talk first; the toy is the easy part.

1. Want: sensation, mood or a change of scene

More sensation during sex means the Cocktail Couples Vibrator or a strap-on. A better night means a candle like the Sandalwood Massage Candle. A different bedroom means furniture like the Adjustable Bouncing Sex Chair. Name the want before you shop.

2. Commitment: low-risk first

A candle, a dust or a drip set is a $30 way to start. A couples vibrator is the next step. Strap-ons and furniture are for couples who have already talked about them.

3. Budget: the middle is the sweet spot

The $79 4.5" Beginner Strap On For Him strap-on and the $164 couples vibrator are where most couples land. The Kinky Couch Sex Chaise Lounge chaise is a bedroom decision, not an impulse.

4. Product: buy the one you will use this week

The best couples toy is the one that comes out again on Saturday. The Clone A Pussy Sleeve Kit clone kit is a one-night project that leaves you with a toy; the massage candle is every week.

Materials & Body-Safety

Couples vibrators and strap-ons here are body-safe silicone, rechargeable or battery, with water-based lube only. Massage candles are soy or coconut wax with skin-safe fragrance that melts to a warm oil; drip candles are low-temperature paraffin made for skin. Honey dusts are edible and body-safe.

Furniture is upholstered foam over a steel or hardwood frame with wipe-clean covers; the bouncing chair uses steel springs and a padded seat. Clone kits are skin-safe moulding compound and a body-safe casting material. Everything here lists what it is made of.

How to Use a Couples Toy

Start with the low-risk items: light a massage candle twenty minutes before, pour the warm oil and let the massage do the introducing. Drip candles are held high and dripped slowly; test the temperature on your own wrist first.

A couples vibrator sits between you during sex, worn by her or held; start on low and let her set the speed. A beginner strap-on for him is hollow and worn over the shaft, adding length and firmness without changing the rhythm.

Furniture is used exactly as it looks: the bouncing chair lets whoever is on top move without effort, the chaise holds positions a bed will not. Clone kits follow the box step by step and take about an hour together.

Care, Cleaning & Storage

Wash silicone toys with warm water and a toy cleaner after every use and dry fully; wipe furniture covers with a damp cloth and let candles cool before capping. Store drip candles flat and out of heat.

Keep toys in pouches away from each other, charge vibrators every couple of months if unused, and vacuum furniture like any other upholstery. A finished clone kit stroker is cared for like any TPE toy.

Our Top 8 Couples Toys for 2026

These eight are what actually gets ordered together from our couples range, drawn from every sub-category, from a $28 candle set to the chaise. All in stock and shipped discreetly Australia-wide.

Couples Toys FAQ

Why Trust Naughty Boy

We are an Australian store built for blokes, and a great many of them shop with their partner. Every product here is one we stock, test and ship ourselves; our picks come from what couples re-order, not from whichever brand is pushing stock this month.